Saturday, 20 September 2008

The First Date

I met this guy at Popstarz and we instantly hit it off. Well, I'm sure we would have done had we not been making out all night. We did speak for a while but for most of the night our tongues were in each other's mouths.

It was weird as well because I instantly felt fairly submissive to him. I have never felt like that. Even if I like someone I don't usually feel submissive. But weirdly it felt quite nice. He kind of took me around with him for the night and I met his friends. in fact I think I spoke to them more than him. I got on really well with his friends, they flirted with me and shouted things at me like, 'He's a top' or 'When was your last relationship' and other things that had it been the other way round I would have been mortified my friends telling my date.

Anyway we hung out a bit longer then he took my number and I figured I would take the initiative and leave him to enjoy his birthday.

He text me the next day with, 'Hey real cool meeting u hope u had fun? x!' Now the punctuation is an issue, I can't pretend it isn't but i liked his balls, saying he hoped I had fun.

We arranged to meet up the following Tuesday and we went for drinks in Trash Palace. But it was Polari and there were rude trannies pushing into us so we left and went to Friendly Society but saw some friends there so we moved to Profile. We got on well, he had quite a dramatic family life too and a madonna obsession that far outweighed any mariah thing I have going on. I still found him really hot and thought, 'You know this could go somewhere.' He admitted he was nervous about tonight, which i found very cute but then counteracted it by saying, 'my friends told you what??? Oh my God, how embarrassing! I know you don't mind but it could have messed things up with other guys in the past.' I'm a bit like, 'Well, er...you're with me now!' But i kept quiet. He also said that he took my number as he actually saw this going somewhere which was cute but then kept saying he was up for a relationship and I kind of thought, 'Well, are you up for a relationship with anyone or do you want a relationship with me?' I was left confused. He walked me to the bus stop and we kissed goodnight.

I had been walking for no more than thirty seconds when he text me, asking what i was listening to. I told him it was Solange and instantly he replied that he was listening to her as well.

We then carried on texting for a while and met up the following week to see The Strangers. We went for a few drinks afterwards and as i wasn't drinking i wasn't allowed to pay which I thought was cute. We arranged to meet Saturday and i would go round to his for dinner, drink and shit TV. i'm sure there was something else on the agenda too. ;)

But that has been cancelled last minute by him and so I think the next time we see each other will be my birthday party next Friday which i'm not sure is the best time as there will be loads of people there and I won't be on my best behaviour.

*sigh*

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