Last night a friend came to stay. We met each other for the first time just under a year ago, probably around the 8 month mark. OK, so it's not really a year, but it's been a while.
We started off really intense. We would email each other every day - sometimes eight or nine times. Having originally met for the first time online, we arranged to meet at the champagne bar at St Pancras. It was romantic and cute. We then spent New Year's together and then slept together.
He doesn't live nearby, so I have been to see him and he has now stayed here a couple of times. But things are changing.
Whereas originally I liked the distance but also the knowing I had a certain stability of someone liking me, now I find the messaging a little clingy and the frequency of the visits too much.
What's more disturbing is that last night he told me he had been dreaming of me, he brought me lots of presents and then said that he wears a pair of jeans I left at his...in bed.
I thought it was all cool and we were just keeping the distance but now I don't know how to tell him I need more space.
How much space can I possibly need? He already lives in another country!
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