Friends & Lovers

Two weeks ago, I met someone in a club. We got on really well. The next day he tracked me down on Facebook and we became friends.

For the following two weeks we emailed each other pretty much every day. We met up at a gig on Monday and before long were making out. (Please can someone give me a better term?)

I suggested he come back to mine and he said, 'I know what gays are like. I quite like you, so I don't think it's a good idea.'

People have laughed but I suggested he come back and we do nothing. It was cold outside and I fancied having someone to hug in my bed. He came back, made the first move and we fooled around.

But everything seemed fine, we got on ok and the next morning we said goodbye with zero awkwardness.

I emailed him when I got into work and now nothing.

I am REALLY annoyed. It's like, 'Why tell me you don't want to sleep with me for fear that I won't talk to you when it's YOU who's ignoring my emails?!'

It makes me furious. I'm not even sure I want to sleep with him again but now it looks like we can't even be friends.